Women & Money

Dawn Bowers-Ferrara

8 min readApr 12, 2021

ELIMINATE MONEY FEARS — 3 Part Series

Part 1

(See the overview of “Eliminate Money Fear” article issued on 4/9/21)

Fear of money does not help empower you.

Fear of money can freeze you into a state of not taking any action.

Fear of money can pressure you to shut down.

Breathe. It’s okay. If you are done with that behavior controlling you, today is your lucky day!

Say YES, YES, YES

These are the three most empowering words you can declare over and over to direct your energy into a place of learning what you fear and then how you can move through that fear. You are taking action right now by continuing on here and showing the universe that you want to learn, change and grow. It hears your desire and it is watching your every move and will support you along your way!

As a woman on the path of moving away from money fear, this process will help you improve your Money Game by Eliminating the Fear of Money.

It’s going to be fun and easy for you as you begin to play THE MONEY GAME

Before you start on this amazing and life changing method:

Grab a cup of tea or a nice refreshing drink (non-alcoholic of course- save that for when you are done and celebrate)
Play some relaxing or inspiring music
Light a candle or spray some sweet perfume in the air- anything that creates a nice mood and makes you relaxed
And let’s get started…

Photo by Karthik Balakrishnan on Unsplash

Hopefully, you have already identified your money fears already based on the last article 4/9/21. If not, you can read it or follow the highlights of the process to do that now. (Note: If you have, then skip down to the section entitled PART 1 — THE MONEY GAME.)

In order to Eliminate Your Money Fears, you have to know what they are. Pretty obvious but many woman aren’t even sure what they are afraid of. I have heard some of these reasons:

I am not good with math
I am not really smart
I have never had to manage money, someone has done it for me
I don’t have any money to manage, it’s gone as fast as it comes
It’s too much responsibility
I don’t know where to start
My life is too busy
I don’t like dealing with money
Money will change me
Money is the root of all evil

The list goes on and on. See if any of those statements resonated with you. If they did, great. If they didn’t, great. Each woman is responsible for their own life and taking charge of it.

Remember that YES, YES, YES you declared above? Now is the time to put your empowerment into actions that will literally change your life for the better!

So here are the 3 EASY Steps to begin with in order to eliminate your unique money fears:

Step 1: Make a list of all the fears you have about money, managing money, paying bills, investing and anything else that comes to mind.

Step 2: Choose the #1 fear you have from the list you compiled

Step 3: Answer this question honesty: Who would you be if you no longer had the #1 fear you listed above?

That’s it — for now. Remember, it is important to take your time with this process so that you begin to make lasting change within yourself.

Part 1 of THE MONEY GAME:

Since you have identified and selected the #1 Money Fear you have (Step #2) and reflected on the question (Step #3), you have begun to create the woman you have always wanted to be. You are using your imagination to help you see who you might be without this fear.

In order to have fun playing The Money Game, you have to like to play with money. Fear will keep you afraid of money and will deter you from wanting to play with it. So Part 1 of The Money Game is to now understand yourself deeper than ever before. When you answered the question:

What kind of a WOMAN would you be if you no longer had the #1 fear you listed above,

you began a process of imagining a new you. A new woman who no longer had this fear and block keeping money from being in her life, at the level she decides. So now is the time to begin to define in deeper terms,

WHO ARE YOU WITHOUT THIS FEAR?

So WHO are you going to become?

That might sound complicated and overwhelming. You might be confused to know where to begin or you many find it difficult to imagine yourself in a way you have yet to become.

Many woman believe they must already see it or be it to believe it. That is the exact opposite of how playing The MONEY GAME works.

The key is to BELIEVE it in your imagination, long before you SEE it created.

Sounds hard? Well it could be for some, but not for you! You are a strong and powerful woman and you would not be reading this if you weren’t. This would not have crossed your path at this exact moment and time if you were not ready.

YOU ARE READY!

So let’s get going.

Follow along and this will be so EASY for you. Follow these steps:

Claim this time as your own because you deserve it. So, go somewhere where you can be alone and it is quiet (I often retreated to the powder room when I couldn’t find any other spot-you gotta do what you gotta do-you are in charge of your life here)
Close your eyes and relax. Take some deep breaths and do some belly breathing (if you don’t know how go to my website there is a video on how to do 4 square/belly breathing- https://mynewdawning.com)
Now I want you to imagine yourself living the life of the WOMAN you would be without the #1 fear you listed above.

Here are some ideas: Maybe you imagine a woman who has more opportunities, choices, freedom, can travel, pay her bills with money to spare, shop in stores she has always wanted to, live in a new space, have a different car, and/or support of people to help you. Maybe you imagine some extra time in your day because you can hire people to do things you used to spend your time doing. Maybe you imagine donating, or having time to volunteer, or to help family or friends. Whatever you imagine here is up to you.

Let your mind go WILD and imagine it all.

4. Now I want you to imagine yourself with the FEELINGS of the WOMAN you be if you no longer had the #1 fear you listed above.

Here are some feelings: Free, open, easy, flowing, abundant, joyful, happy, interested, curious, excited, appreciating, loving, generous, relaxed, trusting, knowing, kind, supportive, giving.

Let your emotions run free and see where they take you when fear no longer blocks you.

5. Relax into the imagined scene more and more and remember it. For now it may just exist in the imagination and that is perfect and fine.

For the imagination is the fertile ground in which you plant seeds of your future -Aurora

6. When you feel complete, open your eyes and come back to your now reality and know that you have changed INSIDE and that is where all lasting change takes place.

7. Repeat these steps 1x per day for 30 days and watch how you feel differently and then how you react differently to situations. This is how you change. This is how you create change in your life. This is your time to begin to manifest it all!

Now Celebrate because you are dreaming your life into existence! Have fun with this.

This is your life. You only get one chance at this particular incarnation so go ahead and live it the way you want to. For more assistance and help on the subject of money, keep on keeping on and read below.

In addition to the above, I would suggest you go back and read or re-read my:

Women & Money

3 KEYS TO AN ORDERLY FINANCIAL HOME SERIES

Key #1: Know What You Appreciate about Money (Energy)

Key #2: Know Where Your Money Is Right Now (Foundation)

Key #3: Know How You Spend Your Money (Building)

Sounds simple? Because it is. Remember.

Easy Does It WELL!

You will really enjoy this process and the Keys! You deserve this and so much more! It is time!

Best of luck on your journey. Much joy and abundance to you now and always, Dawn

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